The foundation of adult trust is not "You will never hurt me." It is "I trust myself with whatever you do.
“The foundation of adult trust is not "You will never hurt me." It is "I trust myself with whatever you do.”
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The foundation of adult trust is not "You will never hurt me." It is "I trust myself with whatever you do.
“The foundation of adult trust is not "You will never hurt me." It is "I trust myself with whatever you do.”
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“The foundation of adult trust is not "You will never hurt me." It is "I trust myself with whatever you do.”
“I'm totally vulnerable to all conditions of existence all the time, no matter where I go or how good I am. Really getting this deconditions me from illusion and entitlement. It’s a fast track to letting go of the ego. To say yes, to the conditions of existence liberates me. I face them directly rather than F.A.C.E them, with fear, attachment, control, and entitlement.”
“Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us.”
“Trust in someone means that we no longer have to protect ourselves. We believe we will not be hurt or harmed by the other, at least not deliberately. We trust his or her good intentions, though we know we might be hurt by the way circumstances play out between us. We might say that hurt happens; it’s a given of life. Harm is inflicted; it’s a choice some people make.”
“The more invested I am in my own ideas about reality, the more those experiences will feel like victimizations rather than the ups and downs of relating. Actually, I believe that the less I conceptualize things that way, the more likely it is that people will want to stay by me, because they will not feel burdened, consciously or unconsciously, by my projections, judgments, entitlements, or unrealistic expectations.”
“Teasing tongues”
“You lost interest in me,”
“Every incident chips away at your limit. Every time you choose to stay, it makes the next time that much harder to leave. Eventually, you lose sight of your limit altogether, because you start to think, ‘I’ve lasted five years now. What’s five more?”
“All twigs are wild.”
“If we can’t repair things with the Romans—well, the two sets of demigods have”
“Being heard and understood is “one of the greatest desires of the human heart.”